On my wedding day, my new husband shoved my face into our cake so hard my nose started bleeding, then leaned close and whispered, “Smile. Don’t embarrass me.” While his mother laughed and two hundred guests stared, I understood something I had spent eighteen months refusing to admit: if I went home with him that night, becoming his wife might make leaving him harder than ever. So I wiped the frosting from my eyes, found my maid of honor across the ballroom, and gave her the signal we had prepared for.
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