Three weeks before the surgery that was supposed to keep me from losing feeling in my left leg, my younger sister looked across my parents’ dining table and told me to postpone it because her bachelorette weekend was already paid for. “You can wait a few months,” she said. Then my mother agreed with her. I had spent most of my life being the son who swallowed things to keep the peace, but that night, something in me finally stopped cooperating.
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