My husband smirked at me across the conference table and said, “Margaret, nobody wants to spend retirement looking at someone who reminds them they’re old.” After twenty-seven years of marriage, Thomas had already replaced me with a woman thirty years younger and was now trying to keep almost everything we had built together. I said nothing until the judge asked whether I accepted his version of our finances. Then I reached into my lawyer’s case and said, “Before I answer, Your Honor, there’s something you should see.”